by Hallelujah Harris
It’s time for a confrontation of Truth!
It’s time for a confrontation of Truth!
It's time for a relationship revolution led by strong Black woman who will not lay down passively beneath the pounding ball-sacks of adulterous and/or lecherous men with multiple sex partners (oft times of both sexes)!
The Black woman is under attack. If she fails to fight back by arming herself with self-respect, self-Love and Knowledge...she will surely die.
Again, it is time for a revolution within African American relationships! Her man and her own naivety are MURDERING the African American woman! And it is well passed the time for the Black woman to wake up and stop letting any male who would marry her or promise to be in a monogamous relationship with her to continue in her presence once she learns that the man is an adulterer, or a lecher or even a brother on the so-called ‘down-low’.
We are in a state of EMERGENCY!
The Black woman MUST protect herself at all times and teach her daughters and her sons to do the same. Unprotected raw-sex must become a thing of the past in this new era if we are to survive! Due to the fact that so many spouses lie and cheat, I feel that we must make regular HIV testing and condom use common in all sexual relationships--even marriages. That's right! Do you know how many married women--especially black women have been exposed to HIV due to 'thinking' they were in a monogamous relationship with a low-down-down-low-dog? You see, it's just too late to try to protect ypurself AFTER you finally find out (if you ever do) that your spouse is lying, cheating and sticking his raw member into whores and/or other men's asses. If your man refuses to wear a condom, refuse him sex or at least get yourself the female condom.
As for women who unknowingly have sex with married males, I am not referring to those unfortunate souls in my blast focusing on this shameful issue within Black relationships. Unwitting adulterous women and the benighted wives of lecherous, adulterous men are at a constantly increasing risk of contracting all manner of STD’s and HIV/AIDS. Such women who sincerely do not know that the male with whom they are having a sexual relationship is married are victims of deception just as the wives of these males are. Such women are going into a state of shock on a regular basis in this country as their doctors hit them with the news that they are HIV positive.
Wives...women: Wake up!
In relation to "the other woman" here, I am referring to cheating spouses and the whores that know a male is married (and even has children) but these immoral juice-dripping Jezebels knowingly and enthusiastically spread their desperate thighs for another woman’s husband. So, let’s not get it twisted. I’m pointing here to two-legged male doggs and the complicit B’s (#14) that they hump.
And by the way, before some pinhead points it out, I know that women cheat on their husbands too and at an increasingly higher rate. I'll deal with that later. Adulterous wives are just as wrong as adulterous men! There are some deeply complex issues and motivations behind the actions of wives who cheat and husbands who cheat.
Again, wives who cheat are just as wrong as the men who cheat. Their motivations, desires and goals, however, are often quite different from those of men, who basically just want to escape the boredom of a committed relationship and desire to feel a woman other than his wife's vaginal walls wrapped around his lust-throbbing member. That excites them. That gets them off.
It's different for most cheating wives though. Again, we'll go more into that at another time.
Anyway…
As I’ve watched Kilpatrick shuck, jive and duck through this, that and the other ridiculous situation, I’ve been struck by the similarity of this man’s apparent disregard for morals, his wife and his children, to my father’s, the other average Black males of America and my own ex-husband’s attitude. They appear to believe that slapping their wet sloppy penises around the town is their God-given right. They fully subscribe to my ex’s maggot-motto: “Every man’s gotta get him a lil somethin-somethin!”
The African American community across this country is in great jeopardy today and the lack of serious commitment to values, marriage, parenthood and decency is in large part a contributor to our state of affairs (pun intended) today. African American women are contracting HIV/AIDS at an alarmingly faster rate than any other group in the United States. Most Black women don't find out that they have AIDS until they have had the disease for quite some time already.
FROM the CDC:
The impact of HIV/AIDS in the African American community has been devastating. HIV/AIDS is the leading cause of death among African American men and women between the ages of 25 and 44. Despite the recent advances in HIV treatment, young people of color and African Americans are still dying from AIDS at higher rates than any other race. African Americans represent an alarmingly large proportion of all AIDS diagnoses in the United States, and an even greater proportion of all HIV diagnoses. The disproportionate impact of HIV/AIDS on African Americans and all people of color warrants enhanced interventions that address the perceptions of disease prevention in all African Americans and the unique realities and context of the lives of Black women.
Do morals mean absolutely anything anymore? Of what value to men is family? Do Black men and Black women clearly see what jeopardy our homes, our children and are futures are in? Do the majority of Black males in America have the interest and/or ability to see the destruction of the African American family core values and what impact that is having on all of our lives?
Is being a Black man about more than how much or how many vaginas a brotha can sample? Is the fact that every woman’s vagina looks and feels different (just as every woman’s face does) a valid reason for planting one’s member into every vagina one can find? What’s the basis Brothas?
And what about the Black women willing to knowingly have sex with another Black woman’s husband? What's missing within you? Why are you so destructively desperate and dirty? What’s the basis Sistas?
Am I Black-male-bashing just by asking the questions? And if the answers to the questions point to a valid, real and authentic problem, is it bashing anybody? Or must all Black African American women grin and bear whatever is dished out to them if the server is a Black male?
The Black male is killing the Black female just as the evil and wicked powers that be wanted all along. You see, once the Black woman is destroyed--African America is also destroyed. But we do not have to go quietly screwing into that dark night. We can do better.
Of course not all African American men lie, cheat betray their wives and abandon their children, but enough of them do to the point that it has helped to create a disproportionate level of poverty, illegitimacy, violence, HIV/AIDS infection and despair in largely African American communities. Simply put, African American communities love and need our males—to be men!
For the record, I love Black men. The African American man is a king among men at his best. My sons are Black men. My father and my brothers are Black men. I love them all dearly. The truth, as my mama would say, is the truth anyhow. Black men and Black women will need to work together if we as a people are ever to see positive transformation occur in our families, our communities and in all of our lives.
The African American woman, who heads the greater percentage of African American households cannot be expected to turn everything around single-handedly or single-parentally for that matter. For so long she's toiled...for so long the man that is supposed to love her the most has done her the most harm. She's a survivor though. The Black woman is the Original Original Woman and she is the strongest Force on earth. This world needs her to wake up! She can turn this thing around...but time is of the essence.
Philandering Black males have long been infamous in Black communities around the country. There ain’t never been much shame in they game neither. They seem to feel absolutely no stigma around cheating, committing adultery, abandoning their children, fathering children out of wedlock, etc.
Despite whatever trouble, pain or destruction is left in the wake of their two-legged dogg-like behavior, not all, but far too many brothas seem to be almost proud of the sexual escapades that damage Black women, devastate Black children and destroy most any hope of a strong future and any lasting legacy for African Americans nationwide. Fact, the African American family is an endangered entity.
So as I watch Kilpatrick address questions around his and Beatty’s affair and I watch most Black men respond to the affair, very few see anything really wrong or unusual about Kilpatrick’s adulterous actions. If most of them find fault with him, I imagine that many would also have to find fault with themselves. And they sho don’t want to do that!
If Black women see Kilpatrick and Beatty’s adulterous scandal as wrong (and most do) they surely do not see it as unusual. So many Black women seem to have given up on the idea of decency in relation to Black males. Too many wives look the other way just to keep their cheating husbands. Too many women opt to believe in ‘fairy-tales’ trusting Black male members to never betray them or to go up inside of them laced with lethal doses of disease carried back to her from between another woman's legs or another man's anus. It's true!
There are African American women who are so damned DESPERATE to stay with a Black male that they will even knowingly allow their husbands and men to engage in homosexual activity with other men. Oh, yes!
Many Black women just shake their heads and click their teeth saying, “Gurrrrllllll….you know that’s just how they are. They’re just doggs…that’s all…dogs!”
I reject that!
And I’mma tell you why…
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