Wait. I’m going to wrap up my series on a man getin him a lil somethin-somethin, but I fittingly wish to touch on this shyte with Jesses Jackson coming all out of his face about Barack Obama saying that Black men need to step up, stop being MIA and raised their darned children.
Did Obama lie Negro?
You see, Jesse was angry because Barack broke a long-standing tradition within the Black community. That tradition holds that one is to never ever address Black-shyte in mixed company. Dirty laundry should be worn, torn off in the heat of passion, washed or even burned, but it should never, ever be aired in public—especially where white people (who as quiet as it is damned kept have just as much funk-n-junk in their drawers.)
Does Jesse think that white folks and Black people are unaware of the problems replete in African American communities across America in relation to Black men who feel entitled to go around marrying women, making babies or not marrying women and making babies and leaving the Black women to raise those children alone? African American men are failing as fathers at an ever-increasing rate. It is NOT cute or cool. It’s a pluckin epidemic!
He said that Barak was talking down to “Black folks.”
What?
No, Barack was not talking down to Black folks. He was calling y’all baby-making, whore mongers out. Baby-making whore monger are NOT all Black people. It is not all Black men. Baby-making whore mongers are those like my ex who go around with your wild, loose licks sticking them in everything you can grind, making babies and leaving those babies behind to be raised in oft time difficult situations with women or even girls shouldering the entire responsibility for the fruit of your crusty Black loins.
NEWSFLASH Mass-holes:
It’s a problem!
Listen, I’m not talking to white folks here, but they might be privy to the words. I don’t care. They already think Blacks are largely irresponsible degenerates for the most part. I’m talking to my people.
Black males do need to step up more than they have been doing and be men. They need to raise their children from day to day and give these children a working example of a responsible, responsive man whether they remain in a relationship with the mother(s) or damned not!
Why is this so very difficult to understand Jesse Jackson…and the rest of y’all saw-dust males who think it’s cool to make babies and bounce? What's the pluckin basis twitches?
Children need and deserve ACTIVE-PRESENT fathers.
To hear a Black man spit such vile filth from his lusty lips about castrating another Black man was just too much to stomach. Have you don totally lost ya ever-lovin mind Jesse Jackson? The jackers must have loved hearing that shyte! Why don't you just get up on stage and do an ol shufflin-soft shoe for massah--you....
The only good thing this stupid, unconscionable comment may have done is to separate Barack Obama from the likes of folks like Jesse Jackson and other so-called religious leaders in the Black community who no matter what the pluck they think, have no idea of when to just shut-up and let a brotha do his thing.
Of course Jesse Jackson has some very special issues around another brotha trying to win the presidency because he funked it up ROYALLY when he attempted to run! (SEE : http://archives.cnn.com/2001/US/01/18/jackson.child.02/ )
Anyway…
Where the heck was I?
“Aw, Baby…every man’s gotta get him a lil somethin-somethin….” CONCLUSION
It is truly a scary time for all people in the world today and Black women are increasingly in a more vulnerable and dangerous position. People wonder why African American women are contracting HIV/AIDS at such a higher and faster rate than everyone else. In very many cases African American women are becoming infected with HIV/AIDS due to having unprotected sex with their husbands, other women’s husbands and long-term significant others. I did not realize it at the time but the longer I stayed with my ex spouse, the more I was risking infection with HIV/AIDS and all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases.
Why are so many Black women and men not taking the HIV/AIDS crisis more seriously?
The Centers for Disease Control report that In the United States, the HIV/AIDS epidemic is a health crisis for African Americans. At all stages of HIV/AIDS—from infection with HIV to death with AIDS—blacks (including African Americans) are disproportionately affected compared with members of other races and ethnicities. Can y’all not see the writing on the wall?
Here’s a secret that is kept really quiet: Marriage is good for the Black man’s health and the health of Black children, but it is not good in general for the health of Black women. In “The Consequences of Marriage for African Americans,” a comprehensive review of the most recent literature (since about 1990) on the subject the following findings were revealed:
“Marriage promotes the economic, social, familial and psychological well-being of black men and women — as it does for men and women generally. Marriage is wonderful for children, who turn out to be less trouble-prone than their peers from single-parent-households. The economic benefits of marriage are more pronounced for black couples than for whites, more often keeping their families from slipping below the poverty line.
But when it comes to physical health, marriage is worse than neutral for black women. Listen to the report, newly published by the Institute for American Values:
Our research finds that marriage brings small health benefits to black men — and none to black women. In fact, married black women are significantly less likely to report having excellent health than are unmarried black women.”
So now what? Though the health benefits of marriage are not there for African America women as they are for the African American men and children, there are still many benefits for the African American wife and mother for whom, if the truth be told, holds the well-being of her family in the highest regard. Marriage is overall very good for the African American family and our communities. The research reveals many key benefits that African Americans and their children receive from in tact families of strong and lasting marriages. A few of those benefits are:
* African American boys with married parents are markedly less likely to become delinquent and they also tend to do better in school.
* Married African American men gain from $4,000 increases in wages compared to unmarried African American men.
* Married African American men are happier in life than unmarried men.
* African American females also appear to derive very important benefits from marriage, though not as many as the men do.
* Marriage profoundly increases the economic well-being of Black families. * Marriage appears to inhibit crime.
Parental marriage shapes child well-being on many levels. (From: AmericanValues.org )
I have been single for more years than I had been married. I have raised my daughter and my two sons alone while their useless father moved in with his whore and her son. He stayed with for years while asking me behind her back and on a consistent basis for my forgiveness and to allow him to ‘come home’ for most of those years. (Of course her dripping ignorant hole did not know that he was doing this. The whore was allowed to think she had stole ‘somethin’ which was nothing & ultimately why I would not have it--the NOTHING back.) He likely just kept his lies and his seminal fluid flowin right up her dumb-whorish arse. Why do whores act like they do not know that married men are lying to them?
I did not take him back because he was never really good to our children or me and I also believed that if he cheated on me once and in such a blatant, brazen and callous way, he most assuredly would do it again. I just could not see myself living with that kind of stress in my life ever again. Still, if he had of at least been a good father to our children, I would perhaps (still not sure) have taken him back for the sake of our family.
But he was a lousy, uncaring father who actually I am ashamed to admit was never really good to my babies. So, I think the protective, mother lion part of myself was happy and relieved to see his evil ass go. He often argued with me about my loving the babies more than I loved him. He was a real B…really. He was truly the husband of every wife's NIGHTMARES--Just what you pray to God you don't end up with...a mean-spirited, lying, abusive adulterer.
I felt like dying daily while I was maried to this ditch.
His pus-ridden whore actually did me a favor, which is why I suppose I let her live.
In hindsight I suspect, but am not certain that if I had taken him back with the condition that we receive intense marital counseling, family counseling and that he agree to spend quality time with our children and never under any circumstances hit them—maybe it would have been all right. I don’t know. Hindsight is supposed to be 20/20, but it’s all still so foggy for me because one never knows what real good or true evil lurks in the heart of any man or woman. I erred on the side of caution and I can only hope that my children are better off than they would have been if I had allowed him to return to our family.
In the years that I have been single, I have been proposed to by more than a couple men. They were all decent fellows. A couple of them were well to do men who wanted to give my children and me a better life. I chose, however, to go it alone. I very seldom allowed anyone I was seeing to even meet my children. My rule was that unless I was seriously contemplating marriage with any particular gentleman than I would not introduce him to my children. My mother had been a divorced parent and I did not want my children to see the parade of characters go in and out of their lives that I had witnessed as a child.
Now my children are grown. I have yet to re-marry and do not know if I ever will. This is not because I have given up on men—quite the contrary. I have set my standards much higher than they were when I was a girl. I am a woman. I know what caliber of man I will need in order to contemplate a real relationship. I offer what I require and I will in no ways settle for less…and that as they say is that.
Today many Black women are talking about and seriously involved in or contemplating involvement in “man-sharing” situations. I can’t go for that. Myy ex actually informed me a few years ago when I foolishly gave him an opportunity to redeem himself that relationships--adult relationships are 'different' now. He said cockily that he enjoyed relationships with multiple sex partners who he knew also had multiple sex partners. He smugly suggested that I should contemplate this with him. I said...
"Your greazy-wormy lil-slender-short-half-limp-thang was not worth me when I was 20 years old and now that I am almost 40 you want to pretend that you can disrespect me; a Queen and wrap that lil drippy shyte around a bunch of wenches--AND me? Go to hell Negro!"
And that was that...until he and his "multiple-sex-partners" contract and finally die of AIDS...which they likely all will.
I am a one man woman and I demand a one woman man. Nothing else will do it for me. Ya know? I know there are Black men out there with morals, standards and decency. I’ve met them. By God, there must be one for me.
I’ve yet to encounter just my ONE though.
So I remain alone. I am open only to my true Black king. Yes…and I did say Black.
I have dated white men. They were very good to me. (But that's another series...LOL!)
I am awaiting my Black King…for now.
Hallelujah Harris!
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